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Bondage (and everyday accessories) make me feel secure and safe. Autistic. A bit of a sensualist. Almost anything written by Martin Gore (Depeche Mode) describes what I feel I need. Hopelessly smitten with fictional character Severus Snape.

Looking to be someone's Good Girl with an emotional connection.

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I preferBottom / Versatile
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Does not matter
Crossdressing ExperienceNone. I'm open to the idea. Numerous men look better in a dress than many women do!

What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Pinching, Stroking
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

My Tickling Preferences

Favorite tickling objectHands, Feather, Tissue
Where's your favorite Tickling-Spot?Back, Breast, Genitals

My Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?Not my thing.

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Parks and playgrounds at night. Orally serving the driver.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Public playground at night.
Fully occupied bunk bed. (Kind of a turnoff when the sleeping older brother on the top bunk mumbled something about catching someone cheating on a math test.)
Restaurant cooler. (Found out later it had cameras installed. Didn't get fired though...)


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 3" (160 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthNeck length
Best featureLips
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size34 / 75
Cup sizeDD
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusUnemployed
Job TitleAmateur Fanfiction Author & Fandom Nerd

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchSeverus Snape in leather. Or possibly Martin Gore's mind in Dave Gahan's body. Intelligent, intense, sarcastic humor, very fond of lanky builds, and dark eyes and hair. Bondage is a must. A bit of choking could be quite fun I think..

I want to be someone's Good Girl. Preferably with option for being Collared and/or Taken in Hand.
Our first dateQuiet discussion in a public, neutral place.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Tickling games, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasSo far, the best has been in my head. And anal, but he was slender. Lately it's a vibe I named Septimius and a starter plug. (It makes me feel beautiful.)


FetishesCrossdressing, Feathers, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Tickling, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Adult book stores, Movies, Munches, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Things I'm Not

Vampire. Paedo. Interested in eliminatory/voided emissions. Into bestiality. Willing to be arrested for general stupidity. Willing to hand over blanket consent. Willing to sacrifice health and safety.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI've only been with 3 men in my entire life. I haven't really even opened Pandora's Box yet. I'm willing to explore. (Please keep in mind, I have potential interest in other "boxes" on this site, but haven't experienced them yet.)

I think I'd like to be someone's Good Girl. Praise kink. Fascinated with leather and suede.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, Library, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:A Dominant who cares deeply about his submissive. Someone who can "read me" through slightly autistic behavior. Someone who is able to push for more and make me need to give more.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Read spanking stories, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:Tugging my hair or grasping the back of my neck would work well in tandem with spanking. General physical contact is grounding, obviously.

Please be aware of my strained childhood and discuss implements first.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Gloves, Newspapers
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Stinging

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Curious
Relationship:Private foot & toe play
My interests:Tickling, Sensual foot worship, High arches, Feet in nylons, Bare feet, Boots, Narrow feet, Foot massage, Pedicuring, Foot jewelry
Other activites:I love painting nails.
Foot size:Medium 7-8
My foot turn ons:They're delicate, and often disregarded. And yet a person "stands their ground" or "puts their best foot forward" which rather tells me a lot about their importance.
My turnoffs:Unkempt. Obvious illness.