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Fiesty, alone and lost.

I struggled for years about who and how I am. First when it came to being able to admit I tended to prefer woman and even more when I started to realize I was into things the world around me seemed to frown at me for. After years of being put in bad situations I am tired. In the most pure moments of exchanging control with someone, came the rare times I felt completely safe and content. I don't want to feel so alone in what I want so I suppose I was drawn here. I'm not sure how to describe myself, but I at least want to be honest. I am who I am and I won't feel guilty for that. I probably should be writing something funny or more revealing about who I am but this is what came to mind.

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Public Sex preferences

Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Riskiest place was in my car in a parking garage at the University I was attending. I didn't think I was into playing somewhere we could have been seen fairly easily but it really got to me.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageRussian
BuildA few extra pounds
Height160 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchOh heck, that's hard to explain. It's more about whether their personality is a match for mine. I need someone who has enough of an intellect to not only keep up with me but challenge me. Not to sound mean or whatever but most conversations I tend to find boring or draining. I want someone that talking to them energizes me and makes me really think. There's probably more to it then that but in my head it's more of a general ideal... I wouldn't want to close myself off to someone because of certain things set in my head.
Our first dateWhelp as long as it doesn't involve anything illegal or puts someone in real danger I'm not sure it matters... just not the movies or somewhere super loud. I'm not sure what the point of a date where you can't talk when you are just first getting to know each other would be.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Femdom, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner


FetishesMedical / Enema

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Adult book stores, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":No blood or human waste, other stuff I suppose if I'm talking with someone where that's a concern I can explain more then.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy sex partner:A Dominant woman that has me wanting to submit to her. I want someone who would enjoy teasing me and wouldn't mind if I teased back a little. Someone who would reinforce her control over me but was able to take care of me after if I needed it. Someone who could push my limits and challenge me without breaking me. I don't know how to put it all together.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Gloves, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Online Torment
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
Ideal session:Well, one where I was pushed to submit and teased until I couldn't take it anymore and not given release until I properly begged for it... I'm not sure if that's my ideal but it certainly plays a role in my fantasies.