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I am a straight submissive interested in sensory deprivation (sight, sound), temperature play (ice/wax mainly, but open to new - pun intended?), movement restriction, and electric stimulation (beginner). I am willing to engage in CBT during relationships only and not NSA play. I enjoy anything from ropes to silk, velvet to cuffs and leather. Different types of humiliation (not public or bodily fluid) can be introduced as trust in formed over time. Both in and out of the bedroom I am naturally giving and chivalrous. I am not interested in findom or 100% power exchange. The bedroom is one place, but I still expect a form of mutual respect in how we genuinely treat each other and communicate. To me, limits and boundaries should be discussed and set before trying anything new. There is a peacefulness in being able to fully trust someone with control of the physical body, while exploring both of our sexual limits, fantasies, and desires. I am open to talking about trying new things. I am neutral regarding play with things like clamps and clothespins, among others. Things like rings and stretchers can make me crazy when used correctly, especially with denial and teasing. I have my own list of non-negotiables, which we can discuss, with the two foremost being forced bi-play and body fluids. I have a few physical limitations that restrict certain types of binding and certain equipment/furniture, which will obviously be discussed. My dream would be to cultivate a long-term relationship with the right domme, and let the bedroom serve as a world of discovery and intimacy for both of us.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner, Hard and rough
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?High

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Festivals, campgrounds, museums.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Cellar of a crowded bar. The two of us snook into the basement and found the cellar in the middle of the afternoon.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height188 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureCalves
Body ArtBranded, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Our first dateWhatever your heart desires.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, CBT (cock & ball torture), Electro torture, Femdom, Food play, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Mummification, Sensory deprivation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesFeathers, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Tongue Fetish

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkDepends on the person

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, but I want to try it
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Watersports, bodily fluids (spit sometimes), tickling, public disgrace, certain restraints and positions (physical/medical limit), soft limit on pain (discuss before), forced bi, cages, findom.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyMovement restriction and sensory deprivation (sight & sound). I've had this recurring dream where I am inside a magicians magic saw box and bound. Each time, the assistant does whatever she wants with me, from using spreader bars to completely tying me down, to teasing me endlessly until she's fully pleased and satisfied, before allowing me to breakthrough in ecstasy.
Fantasy locationMoving car, At a park, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Movie theatre, On the beach, Library
Fantasy sex partner:If we're talking professional: Lexi Belle, Rayveness, Jenni Lee.

Ann Margaret or Natalie Wood from back in the day.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Dominant Nurse Doctor
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex, Other
Ideal session:My ideal session involves being bound and restrained while lying down, with different forms of cock, ball, and anal play at my mistress' leisure. I enjoy giving oral and listening to instructions / commands. I always like having 1 or 2 new things introduced during a session, or at least a small variety. I especially like when it may be unplanned when my mistress gets horny, requiring me to drop everything at that moment. A component of pain is always welcome, but intense pain is something I would have to be introduced further into.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:My ultimate fantasy would include sight and sound deprivation while following my mistress' beck and call. I enjoy variety and want to develop a trust level with someone to where I can completely trust a mistress while bound and in the darkness without sound. I would be willing to be shared eventually in this way, whether I am pleasing or receiving.

I also have a fantasy where I have restricted sight by using a divider or separator that doesn't allow me to see what's going on below my neck level. This could be done while upright or laying down, while my mistress experiments and teases.